Bengang Bangattt!

Are you stressed when you are the victim of someone's bad mood swings, anger and frustration? Or when you talk to someone and: -

1) That someone as if masuk telinga kanan and keluar telinga kiri? When you are bubbling away with passion and excitement and the recipient just take the first detour spotted at a moment of a millisecond pause, muttered nonsense and talk about something else as if you have never uttered a word in the first place?

2) That someone talked as if you are a nuisance to that someone's life and as if wishing you never opened up your mouth at all?

3) That someone just blab away just for the sake of making a noise in order to respond to your earlier question or query.

What am I to do with these kind of people? You simply can't retort back in the same manner they treated you, it is only going to deteriorate any sort of bond you have already built and worked on thus far.

Despite these people treated you as if you are of a negative value in their life, you just can't and refuse to find in your inner self to hate them, for maybe these people behaved they way they did because that was how they were treated at a certain point in their lives. Nak marah pun tak jadi, sebab kesian bila tahu sejarah hidup diorang.

And they find it OK to portray it upon others.

And even if someone point out to them that it is actually not OK, they don't really care at all because there are many more people around them who are willing to put on a blind eye due to, say, love and affection?

But don't you wish that you are forever surrounded by good-natured people? Who care about every single word you say, who are able to read between the lines, deciphering that you are not fine when you say you are? Who laughs at your jokes and cries at your sorrow? Who notices at the first squeak of your voice that you are really not OK?

You can only doa to God so that these people whom I have mentioned earlier will be more sensitive to the feelings of the people around. Because I believe everyone has that slight feeling of love in them, that they do care about others. They just have to nurture that bit of feeling so that it'll grow and flourish. And our job is to remind them that the world is actually filled with wondrous things if they open up their heart.

Hmm apa-apa je lah yang aku bebelkan hari ni. Hanya sekadar luahan perasaan...hehe.